There are some decent guys like Eklabya in this world - calm, decent, dignified. They are from decent families, can be very supportive and are decent enough for anyone to fall in love with - These are guys who deserve and get the love of any fairy that want. They are blindly trusted, deeply loved and never forgotten.
And why should they be...... They are the ones who have Love literally begging at their feet.
And then are jokers and fools like Raj - loud, uncouth, undignified, sons of the street, shameless and useless... Can you imagine then that these jokers also think they deserve love - and whose love - the love of a F-A-I-R-Y!
I feel like asking them, have you seen your face in the mirror, you fools!
What's wrong then if the one you love, compares your love to someone else's and you end up as losers?
how can you - the scum of the Earth - think of yourselves as worthy of a fairy?
What's wrong if she shrieks at your shouts - who the hell are you? Are you Eklabya? Are you even worth the mud on the ground where his shit falls?
What's your value? Get Lost! Kill yourself! You are just not worth HER
So many times, I have told you that you don't deserve her but then Raj, how will you understand - after all you are just a stray dog competing with the Lion - the true lover - the ruler of her heart - you are nothing but a disgusting vermin - how dare you behave in this inhuman manner
It's rightly stated that dogs can't digest butter - woe on them who give them ghee to eat
Shame on You Raj - Shame on you
Go away, do not show anybody your face - please go away.
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I assume you are Raj.
Hello Raj,
Your post is evident of your pain.Self hatred is not the key.If you think your actions are paining the girl you love, try modifying them.
Well, though I think if she really loves you, she should love you the way you are.
If she is trying to change you and love, then she does not love you and changing yourself for someone who does not love you is not worth.
Life is short Raj.The one who does not love you is not worth wasting your time on.Do not mind my saying but it is true.
Your writing speaks your love and pure hearty feelings.They will be valued by any nice girl on earth.But it seems your girl do not know its value and she is making you hate yourself.
In this world love is scarce.There are lots in need for it.Shower it on them who will embrace it with all of them.Not on someone who compares your love with another.
Its not love dear friend.Love makes the another love himself,not hate.
Will be back.
Tina
I am in love with what can be. The best of what a Man can be.
And thats not everyone. Its not FOR everyone. Like He calls Himself...The Chosen One. And its not for Him to hate Himself! He cant afford to.
1) You do not fall in love with the "decency". You fall in love with the person.
2)Any human being on earth deserves "love".There are no seggregations in deserving "love".
3)Love is love, be it of a human being, be it a fairy.Love is the same in different forms.
4)If you can love purely, unconditionaly, you are worth love at its best.
5)And no one on earth loves someone who she thinks the person is not worth her. Cos, to love, you also need to respect,to worship.
Well, its completely my view. Opinions always differ.
and @ Tina,
How much do you know him to comment he hates himself?
Why on earth should he do that?
I think he has enough reasons to himself as well as others have too, to respect him.
And how do you know she is trying to change him and love? How do u know she does not value his love?
Don't comment on what you don't know completely.
I would like to ask... What is a person? What makes him.. Him?
My Love is highly conditional. If Love were unconditional... wouldnt I love every tom, dick and harry? (And you bet I dont!!)
Now would you say I dont deserve or am not worth love in its 'best' form? If I dont, then isnt that seggregation?
And as to point three, I dont know about fairies and human beings... but Mine is defenitely different from yours :)
There is a lot of 'serenity' in Tina's comment, though I might not agree to everything she said. You have got a pretty blog there Tina. :)
Hmmm... Opinions differ. I missed that out. Surely they do, and I guess we are three different people having four different opinions. :D
@ Infatuated with Life,
Pure "Love" is not conditional, if it is,then its impure.
And what you are talking about falling in love with tom,dick,harry - well, you fall in love after you like the person. Yes,"Like" is conditional. Once your feelings transcends to "love", do you really leave the person if your conditions are not fulfilled ?
If you do, then yes, your love is definitely different from mine. Cos I may like someone cos of certain "conditions" like his "Good Qualities he is made of",but once it transcends to love,I would love him for "who he is" with both of his positives and negatives.
When you liked, his looks may had been a condition for your liking, but when you love, would you leave that person if somehow that condition stays no more?
And Yes, I would say, if your love is conditional, you should be loved by someone who can love on conditions as u do, and not unconditionally, and selflessly. As that would bring a lot of pain to that person when you would turn your face back, provided any of your conditions fail to be fulfilled.
Well, again as I say, Opinions differ. and surely our "way of loving" also do, else ......... Well, let it be .. :) :)
To the last sentence...
Else what?
And to the rest of it...
BULLSHIT. And I mean it respectfully.
"A person loves only when he/she believes the other to be of same value or of much more value than oneself.So, dont even think whether you are worth her ? You are worth more than what she deserves."
Not a condition???!! And yes.. you talk of WORTH. THAT is the condition.
Love is self-full (I wouldnt use the term Selfish). Now please dont think I am talking out of anger after a failed relationship and a miserable boyfriend. NO.
I take steps forward. I like the flowing water. Growth of the Self is what I expect out of love. In the radius of that inspiration... of my Love and the Love returned, I grow deeper, taller... It is blissful. And for that to happen, do you realise the responsibility on the shoulder of the Beloved? He is raised to a pedestal. Adored, Embraced, Respected, Worshiped. He better live upto it.
"Growth of the Self", Well, yes!!!Love helps you grow. But then for that you have to learn perhaps the most difficult art,the art of Moving On.
Yes Tina, Life is short and its better to shower Love on those who embrace it,as is often said "Love those who Love You"!!!
BUT then somewhere its not Love its Business, business of happines Aur pyaar Mein Sauda Nahi Hota Hai!!!
True, Love may not be returned because its that cross-sword which can give you a lot of happiness on on hand but on the Other,it can also give extreme unbearable pain.
So there we are stuck,can't grow because we can't Move On!!From all that Life has taught me about Love I can only say that we may not be Ekalabya but are definately not the nasty creature of hell for we have fallen in Love, for we KNOW what love is and What is takes to Love and that Love is Divine.
So,my dear Raj,dont fall apart for someone has not returned your Love. The very fact that you have Loved and Loved deeply will heal you because its ultimately Love itself who will return your love and will complete you!!!!
And for the rest, we are there for you!!!!
"A person loves only when he/she believes the other to be of same value or of much more value than oneself.So, dont even think whether you are worth her ? You are worth more than what she deserves."
Well, you say this is a condition ?, worth is a condition ? I say "No" - a person feels this way out of love, cos its in love, the beloved is raised to a pedestal, and worshipped, irrespective of what he is .And if you kick him off if he fails to live upto it, is that love ? What kinda love it is ?
Love always forgives, and still loves. It always gives without excpecting back. Love is really blind. Perhaps thats why he fails to see my negatives, and says "Tujh mein rab dikhta hai".
But yes, not everyone can love that way.His love is too pure and unconditional.
We dont fall in love with Tom Dick, harry, cos like is based on conditions. And you straight away dont love the person, you first like for what he is ... but then love for "Who" he is.
When you expect the beloved to live upto it, that very moment, it becomes "give and take".... love is not give and take... Its on the beloved's wish whether he would or he would not. But that should not change the lover's love to something else.
Love is a feeling without any expectations.
When expectations creep in, its not love.
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